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150 Interesting Would You Rather Questions For Couples

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Are you looking for a way to spice up date night or just want to connect with your partner? These would you rather questions for couples are an ideal way to do both and more!

These questions aren’t too taxing and should elicit some interesting conversations between the two of you. The premise of asking a would you rather question should make for some interesting answers and conversations afterward.

You can use these relationship would you rather questions in a variety of settings which makes them such a good conversation starter. On date night, on a long car journey, or whenever you’re alone, you can ask these questions to open the lines of communication and see where the conversation takes you.

Our list of would you rather questions for couples will have the two of you chatting about a variety of different topics in no time. We reckon they’re so good, the conversation might keep going on and on, which is why they’re one of the best couples question games to play!

See what you think and check out our questions below!

Best Would You Rather Questions For Couples

In this section, we’ve curated what we consider to be our best selection of questions.

These would you rather questions should have you talking for hours on end about the various choices you’d make.

Have fun!

1. Would you rather talk to me on call or chat via text?

2. Would you rather cook for your significant other or cook as a couple?

3. Would you rather argue all night to resolve a conflict or go to bed and leave things unresolved?

4. Would you rather get home from work to a home-cooked meal or a taxi waiting to take you both out to a restaurant?

5. Would you rather be in a long-distance relationship and see each other once a year, or spend every waking moment together?

6. Would you rather go away on short vacations every weekend or go on a three-month vacation once a year?

7. Would you rather be honest about something and hurt your partner, or keep a secret not to hurt them?

8. Would you rather have/have had a big wedding or elope?

9. Would you rather keep our life together exactly the same or change aspects of our life?

10. Would you rather find out how your partner will die or how you will die?

11. Would you rather never hug or never have sex?

12. Would you rather travel into the future or travel into the past together?

13. Would you rather your partner be shorter or taller than you?

14. Would you rather cook for your partner or have them cook for you?

15. Would you rather take a long walk in nature or cuddle up on your favorite couch?


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16. Would you rather take three months off to travel with your partner or take three months off to get better in touch with yourself?

17. Would you rather have no kids or eight kids?

18. Would you rather sleep with your own best friend or my best friend?

19. Would you rather be funnier than your partner or smarter?

20. Would you rather be with someone who is overly romantic or overly practical?

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21. Would you rather receive a cheap thoughtful gift or a gift that costs a lot of money?

22. Would you rather volunteer at an animal shelter or a homeless shelter?

23. Would you rather your partner wore dirty, stained clothes or just had an embarrassing dress sense?

24. Would you rather have your closest friend or your partner by your side when facing a crisis?

25. Would you rather have weekend plans or keep things spontaneous?

26. Would you rather stay in a relationship that wasn’t right or be single and happy?

27. Would you rather your partner had been previously married or already had two kids?

28. Would you rather be the money earner or stay at home and look after your children?

29. Would you rather kiss me on the forehead or cheek?

30. Would you rather play board games or video games with your partner?

31. Would you rather have coffee or wine with your partner?

32. Would you rather be with someone who parties a lot or someone who hates socializing?

33. Would you rather have a marriage proposal in a public place or just the two of you in private?

34. Would you rather talk to your family or your partner’s family when things aren’t going great?

35. Would you rather our child looked like you or looked like me?

Fun Would You Rather Questions For Couples

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36. Would you rather your partner had constantly smelly armpits or bad-smelling breath?

37. Would you rather live near the sea or in a busy city?

38. Would you rather go on a romantic walk or a shopping spree together?

39. Would you rather poop when you orgasm or never orgasm again?

40. Would you rather do it in the ocean or in a jacuzzi?

41. Would you rather get a back massage from me or by a professional masseuse?

42. Would you rather share the same hobbies or have your own hobbies?

43. Would you rather use a cheesy pickup line or ask someone out with food in your teeth?

44. Would you rather eat at the same place on date nights or try a new one each time?

45. Whilst you rather not have internet for a month or not see your other half for a month?

46. Would you rather spend a year traveling Europe or a year traveling Asia?

47. Would you rather receive a good morning text or a good night text every day?

48. Would you rather have an engagement proposal at a soccer match or in a shopping mall?

49. Would you rather be attractive and stupid or highly intelligent and ugly?

50. Would you rather get a massage or a gift from your partner?

51. Would you rather look 20 years older from the neck down or just in the face?

52. Would you rather be lost in a desert together or stranded in the ocean?

53. In a survival situation, would you rather drink your partner’s urine or yours?

54. Would you rather be up earlier or later than me in the morning?

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55. Would you rather walk all day or drive all day together?

56. Would you rather your partner give you an awful gift on your birthday or forget it altogether?

57. Would you rather your lover didn’t shower for two weeks or brush their teeth for two weeks?

58. Would you rather live without your cell phone or without your car?

59. Would you rather your partner cried a lot during every argument or shouted a lot?

60. Would you rather your partner snored each night loudly and kept you awake or slept all day?

61. Would you rather be ignored for a week over a disagreement or shouted at constantly for a day?

62. Would you rather lose all the memories you’ve ever made together or never see each other again?

63. Would you rather your partner was constantly causing comical mischief or was quite boring but gave you an easy life?

64. Would you rather your neighbor saw you being intimate through the window or heard you through the wall?

65. Would you rather live without watching a movie again or live without music?

66. Would you rather your partner be hilariously funny or very serious but ambitious?

67. Would you rather work out together or watch Netflix together?

68. Would you rather have amazing sex with no romance or boring sex but lots of romance?

69. Would you rather spend $10,000 on a new car or go traveling for six months?

70. Would you rather own a sailboat together or a jet plane?

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71. Would you rather your partner die before you or you before them?

72. Would you rather take a bath together or a shower together?

Deep Would You Rather Questions For Couples

These questions are deeper than the other ones on this page. While they might not be along the lines of philosophical questions, they will take your conversation into more profound and thoughtful areas.

Ideal questions if you’re on a long journey or you want to get the opinion of your other half on an important matter.

73. Would you rather lose your ability to speak or walk?

74. Would you rather lose all your money and possessions or all your memories?

75. Would you rather work in an unethical job and be rich or a job that helps everyone in the world but pays nothing?

76. Would you rather have a beautiful wedding with just the two of you or a cheap wedding with all your friends and family?

77. Would you rather adopt or foster a child?

78. Would you rather live together and barely see one another or not live together and see one another all the time?

79. Would you rather relive stories of your past or dream about your future?

80. Would you rather have horrible parents or no parents?

81. Would you rather your partner write you a love letter or a song?

82. Would you rather never feel emotion again or be highly sensitive to everything?

83. Would you rather your lover was always late and unreliable, but you had the best dates, or they were reliable but quite boring?

84. Would you rather go bankrupt or lose all of your personal photos?

85. Would you rather our children look like my side of the family or yours?

86. Would you rather live forever or die at a normal age?

87. Would you rather spend an evening watching the stars or at a cinema?

88. Would you rather have a horrible memory or always lack common sense?

89. Would you rather have your heart broken or be the heartbreaker?

90. Would you rather your partner had a great body and terrible hair, or great hair and an unattractive body?

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91. Would you rather go without your phone or your best friends for a week?

92. Would you rather we grow old together or we stay this age together forever?

93. Would you rather have all the money you could desire or all the love you could desire?

94. Would you rather use your partner’s underwear or not wear any for a week?

95. Would you rather have 1000 guests at your wedding or just be the two of you?

96. Would you rather lose your sense of taste or lose your sense of touch?

97. Would you rather tell a lie for a good reason or tell the truth for a bad reason?

98. Would you rather end homelessness or domestic violence?

99. Would you rather have more time or more money?

100. Would you rather sacrifice yourself and save the life of a child or live and cause the death of a child?

101. Would you rather be 30 minutes late or early for an important event?

102. Would you rather spend your old age in a city or a village?

103. Would you rather go bald or lose all your teeth?

104. Would you rather have a rainy-day fund or a fund for traveling the world?

105. Would you rather win the lottery or be blessed with the best health?

106. Would you rather lead others and stick out or follow others and blend in?

107. Would you rather control or read someone’s mind?

108. Would you rather be poor doing a job you love or rich doing a job you hate?

109. Would you rather be admired by your family or admired by your friends?

More Would You Rather Questions For Couples

Want more would you rather questions for couples. Here are a collection of random questions you can use to spark a fun conversation between the two of you.

110. Would you rather lick someone’s belly button or have them lick yours?

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111. Would you rather your partner be addicted to porn or be a pornstar?

112. Would you rather your partner forget your birthday or your wedding anniversary?

113. Would you rather not see your partner at Christmas or on your wedding anniversary?

114. Would you rather your lover get no attention from the opposite gender or you get no attention from the opposite gender?

115. Would you rather catch your other half cheating or for them be honest about it?

116. Would you rather not be able to use Google or not be able to use social media?

117. Would you rather have a threesome with total strangers or two previous partners?

118. Would you rather have a lot of money or save the life of the person you hate the most?

119. Would you rather play card games or video games with your partner?

120. Would you rather eat unlimited sandwiches or unlimited cake for the rest of your life?

121. Would you rather your partner be your boss or you be their boss?

122. Would you rather be buried alive or drowned?

123. Would you rather have dinner with Donald Trump or Joe Biden?

124. Would you rather slow dance to a romantic song or naughty grind to hip hop?

125. Would you rather have sex on an airplane or on a train?

126. Would you rather spend $1000 on yourself or spend it on the house?

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127. Would you rather go on a guided tour or explore yourself when visiting a new destination?

128. Would you rather go on a cruise or a coach trip holiday?

129. Would you rather be a movie star or a sports star?

130. Would you rather have a giant puppy or a tiny elephant?

131. Would you rather have a picnic together at sunset or sunrise?

132. Would you rather get matching tattoos or matching piercings with your partner?

133. Would you rather never see your friends again or your partner never sees their friends again?

134. Would you rather kiss alone in a room or surrounded by strangers?

135. Would you rather be elected as president of the United States of America or selected to run Google?

136. Would you rather be able to go free to any restaurant for the rest of your life or free to go to an amusement park for the rest of your life?

137. Would you rather go to a Harry Styles or Ed Sheeran concert?

138. Would you rather live in a tent or be in a long-distance relationship with your partner?

139. Would you rather I make the first move in the bedroom or you?

140. Would you rather be an inventor or a carpenter?

141. Would you rather spend our holidays with just me or with all your family?

142. Would you rather wake up early with your partner and spend quality time with them or wake up late and spend time on your own?

143. Would you rather be highly intelligent, but nobody believes what you say or make up stupid lies, and everyone believes you?

144. Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who never disagrees with you or someone who never agrees with you?

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145. Would you rather be tired after every sleep or hungry after every meal?

146. Would you rather be given a love letter or send one?

147. Would you rather meet your partner’s children or closest friends first?

148. Would you rather your partner snore or sleepwalked every night?

149. Would you rather send your children to private school or state school?

150. Would you rather invest your wealth into space travel or solving environmental issues on planet earth?

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Tom Stevenson

Co-Founder of Questions About Everything

Tom is a travel writer and Co-Founder of Questions About Everything. He grew up in the UK and enjoys spending his time traveling to new places, supporting Liverpool FC, and blogging about his adventures. He spent two years teaching English in Barcelona and frequently utilized question games and conversation starters as part of his lesson plans. As an EFL teacher, he took full responsibility for planning and delivering lessons, frequently employing creative and diverse questions to engage the children in conversation. Learn more about Tom on our About page.

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