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160 Dirty Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

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If you want to make things more intimate in the bedroom, these dirty questions to ask your boyfriend will do the trick.

We’ve compiled a list of sexual questions to ask your boyfriend that will turn him on in no time. We cover a range of topics from sex, fantasies, and many other sexy talking points!

Knowing what to ask your guy in the bedroom can be difficult and that’s what we’ve tried to help with, by compiling these kinky questions to ask your boyfriend.

Things should get a lot more freaky and juicy once you’ve asked some of these questions. The great thing is, you can keep coming back to the list time and time again to keep things passionate between the two of you!

Dirty Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend List

Dirty questions to ask your boyfriend dirty talk

1. Do you like it when I talk dirty to you?

2. What’s an unfulfilled intimate fantasy you’d like to try out with me?

3. What’s a naughty outfit you fantasize about me wearing?

4. Outside of the bedroom, what’s your favorite place to do it with me?

5. What color underwear am I wearing right now?

6. Do you think I’m experimental enough in the bedroom?

7. What would you do if I told you I wasn’t wearing any underwear right now?

8. If you had to give me a full body massage, where would you start?

9. What’s something you would love to try but are too scared to ask?

10. What’s one position you’re yet to try but are eager to give it a go?

11. What’s the first thought that pops into your head when you wake up in the morning and see me?

12. Would you like to introduce toys in the bedroom? If so, what type of toys?

13. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done in the bedroom? Would you do it again?

14. If we played truth or dare, and I dared you to do it in public, would you?

15. What lingerie of mine always gets you in the mood?

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16. What’s the strangest thing you’ve wanted to try during foreplay?

17. If we had the opportunity to have a threesome, would you be up for it?

18. If you could do it with one of my friends and me, who would it be and why?

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19. Would you feel comfortable masturbating in front of me?

20. Have you ever fantasized about one of your friend’s parents?

21. Do you check me out when I’m walking away from you?

22. Would you send me naughty pictures if I asked nicely?

23. What’s the kinkiest fetish you have?

24. Have you ever wanted to tear my clothes off in an act of sexual passion?

25. What do you think is more seductive, bikinis or tight yoga pants?

26. If you could sleep with any celebrity, who would you choose?

27. Does it turn you on when I make the first move?

28. If you had to describe my body in three words, how would you describe it?

29. If I wanted to watch an adult movie to get in the mood, would you watch it with me?

30. What’s one thing I wear that you find irresistible?

31. Do you enjoy wearing condoms?

32. Is there any other contraception you would like to use?

33. What’s your opinion on flavored condoms?

34. Would you like to have a whole day in bed with me?

35. What have your ex’s been like in bed?

36. Do you get jealous when other guys check me out?

37. What perfume always reminds you of me?

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38. What’s the kinkiest thing we’ve ever done?

39. Would you like to film us doing it so we could watch it back later?

40. What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve done with someone?

41. What’s your most embarrassing intimate story?

42. Do you have a sensitive part of your body?

43. Do you prefer to do it in the morning or before bed?

44. Would you prefer me to shower before being intimate?

45. What’s the worst intimate experience you’ve had?

46. Have you ever walked in on your parents doing it?

47. Would you let me dress you up in the bedroom?

48. What are your thoughts on going to a nudist beach with me?

49. Would you like me to masturbate in front of you?

50. Would you like us to do it more?

51. Do you like to cuddle after sex?

52. Have you ever sent dirty pictures to the wrong person?

53. Would you like to try virtual reality intimacy?

54. What’s the dirtiest picture you’ve received from someone?

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55. What’s the strangest place you’ve done it?

56. How many people in your phone book have you slept with?

57. Have you ever fantasized about sleeping with one of my friends?

58. What’s something you secretly desire?

59. Do you think sex is better when you love the other person?

60. Have you ever been a friend with benefits?

61. What are the most times you’ve done it in one night?

62. What’s a big turn-off in the bedroom?

63. How many people before me have you had a hot encounter with?

64. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done in the bedroom?

65. What sexual thought/fantasy do you usually think of while pleasuring yourself?

66. What age were you when you lost your virginity?

67. What can you remember about it?

68. Would you like to change the person you lost your virginity with?

69. What sexual fears do you have?

70. Have you ever been shocked by something in the bedroom?

71. Do you ever wear tight pants to show off the size of your private parts?

72. What’s the biggest mistake you’ve made in bed?

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73. What’s your idea of the perfect kisser?

74. Would you ever do it with a stranger you met the same day?

75. Have you ever been intimate on the first date?

76. Describe in detail my body from bottom to top?

77. Would you like to do it on public transport?

78. Do you have any sexual horror stories?

79. What do you enjoy most about having sex?

80. How do I know when you want sex?

81. Would you like to have a safe word to use during rough sex?

82. Do you want me to punish you in the bedroom?

83. Do you like to experience pain during sex?

84. If you could choose where on my body would you like me to get a tattoo?

85. Where on my body would you like me to get pierced?

86. Have you ever done anything sexual on a video call?

87. Have you ever had a one-night stand?

88. Is there a time you regretted sleeping with someone the morning after?

89. What could I do to make my body more attractive?

90. Has anyone ever walked in on you doing something sexual?

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91. Have you ever been with someone older?

92. What has been the most powerful sexual experience you’ve had?

93. Would you like to have music on in the background while we do it?

94. Do you prefer you or me to take the lead in the bedroom?

95. What’s the worst thing someone could do in the bedroom?

96. Have you ever caught your friends having sex?

97. Have you ever sexted someone in the past?

98. Would you like it if I sexted you more?

99. If I jumped into a hot tub naked, would you join me?

100. Tell me what your ex was like in bed?

101. What turns you on instantly?

102. Would you come skinny dipping with me?

103. Do you ever forget to wear underwear when leaving the house?

104. During sex, is there a part of your body that becomes super sensitive?

105. Did you ever have a sexual experience in school or college?

106. Have you ever taken part in group sex?

107. Would you attend a swinger’s party with me?

108. What are your thoughts on us going to a strip club together?

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109. How old were you when you masturbated for the first time?

110. What do you think my favorite sex toy is?

111. What would you choose if you could only have one type of sex for the rest of your life? Oral, Regular, Anal

112. Have you ever owned a book on Karma Sutra?

113. Do you prefer the lights on or off during sex?

114. Do you prefer me to be hairy or shaven?

115. Would you ever sleep with someone of the same sex?

116. If you had to sleep with a celebrity of the same sex, who would it be and why?

117. Do you ever get jealous of our friend’s sex life?

118. Would you like to try anal with me?

119. What film is always guaranteed to get you in the mood for sex?

120. What always arouses you and why?

121. Have you ever slept with someone in the sex industry?

122. Would you like me to massage you before we do it?

123. Do you masturbate more or less now we’re together?

124. Is there any public place near us where you would like us to do it?

125. What movie scene is always embarrassing to watch when your parents are around?

126. Would you let me handcuff you during sex?

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127. Would you like to join the mile-high club?

128. What are your thoughts on having sex in a movie theatre?

129. Describe what you like and what you don’t like about your body?

130. Do you like me talking dirty to you while we do it?

131. Do you think size matters to girls?

132. Would you still have sex with me if I was on my period?

133. Would you prefer us to kiss with or without tongues?

134. Is there a specific smell that turns you on?

135. What’s your favorite part of foreplay?

136. Would you like me to give your private parts a name?

137. Have you ever had a crush on someone you really shouldn’t have?

138. How often in a day do you think about sex?

139. What do you think about people that have casual sex?

140. Have you ever heard a neighbour doing it?

141. This year do you think I will be on the naughty or nice list?

142. Do you think you’re a romantic lover?

143. What’s the shortest time it’s taken you to orgasm?

144. At what age did you learn about sex?

145. Have you ever seen anyone naked by accident?

146. Have you ever slept with someone who had a sexually transmitted disease?

147. Have you ever got someone pregnant by mistake?

148. How would you rate me in the bedroom out of 10?

149. How would you rate yourself out of 10?

150. What’s the most bizarre thing someone has tried to do to you in the bedroom?

151. Do you remember when your parents first talked to you about sex?

152. Would you be annoyed if I randomly gave you a hickey?

153. What’s the most you could have sex in one night?

154. Have you ever slept with someone who was in a relationship?

155. Have you ever caught an ex-partner in bed with someone else?

156. If time was no issue, how often would you like to have sex?

157. Have you ever masturbated in public?

158. When you ask me if you want to watch Netflix and Chill, what do you mean?

159. What do you think about us doing it in the bath or shower?

160. Have you ever felt nervous in the bedroom with me?

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Tom is a travel writer and Co-Founder of Questions About Everything. He grew up in the UK and enjoys spending his time traveling to new places, supporting Liverpool FC, and blogging about his adventures. He spent two years teaching English in Barcelona and frequently utilized question games and conversation starters as part of his lesson plans. As an EFL teacher, he took full responsibility for planning and delivering lessons, frequently employing creative and diverse questions to engage the children in conversation. Learn more about Tom on our About page.