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100 Flirty Would You Rather Questions

100 Flirty Would You Rather Questions

These flirty would you rather questions are ideal to ask someone your crush or someone you’re looking to get more intimate with.

The aim of these questions is to gauge whether you and the person you’re asking them to are a good match and have a little fun in the process.

Would you rather questions for your crush are a great way to build rapport between the two of you as you get to know each other. You can also ask these flirty would you rather questions to your boyfriend/girlfriend too.

We hope these freaky would you rather questions lead to some fun and interesting conversations that up the intimacy between the two of you!

Best Flirty Would You Rather Questions

1. Would you rather have the lights on or lights off during intimacy?

flirty would you rather questions lights on lights off

2. Would you rather be able to read your crushes mind or be able to read only the mind of others?

3. Would you rather show affection in public or in private? 

4. Would you rather be snowed in together or get lost together? 

5. Would you rather eat food off each other or use toys in the bedroom? 

6. Would you rather have a partner who was overprotective and lazy or have a partner who was always jealous but extremely hardworking? 

7. Would you rather me be extremely smart but not be good looking or be extremely good looking but have no personality? 

8. Would you rather stay a virgin until you’re 40 and then get to sleep with your soulmate or lose your virginity early to someone you really have no feelings for?

9. Would you rather have a date at the movies or have a date doing some sort of adventure sport? 

10. Would you rather have your dream job or your dream partner?

11. Would you rather have a shy partner or one that makes you feel nervous in social situations? 

12. Would you rather give up having sex for five months or not see your friends for a year? 

flirty would you rather questions give up sex or give up friends

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13. Would you rather find out your ex-partner was pregnant with your child, or your current partner find out they’re pregnant with one of your friend’s children?  

14. Would you rather be with a girl who has a great work ethic or a girl who lives life to the fullest? 

15. Would you rather go on a holiday with all your friends or on holiday with me?  

16. Would you rather your partner be extremely blunt or hold back on what they really want to say? 

17. Would you rather be with a partner that loves your friends or loves your family? 

18. Would you rather get married at the last minute or have a long-planned out wedding? 

19. Would you rather always tell your partner the bitter truth or comfort them with lies?

20. Would you rather exercise together in the morning or take relaxing walks in the evening?

21. Would you rather we went to a concert together or did a song together? 

22. Would you rather I went out in public with makeup on or without? 

23. Would you rather take a shower or bath with me? 

24. Would you rather have a snowball fight or a pillow fight? 

flirty would you rather questions snowball fight or pillow fight

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25. Would you rather get spanked on the butt or kissed on the cheek? 

26. Would you rather keep me a secret or tell everyone about me? 

27. Would you rather have our first dance to a slow romantic song or grind on me to a fast beat? 

28. Would you rather catch your parents french kissing or have your parents walk in on you french kissing? 

29. Would you rather see me with no clothes on or me see you with no clothes on? 

30. Would you rather argue with your partner and always be right or tell them they’re right all the time? 

31. Would you rather go back in time to your younger years and play the field or go back in time and meet the love of your life? 

32. Would you rather give or receive while being intimate?

33. Would you rather always search for love and keep getting heartbroken or give up after the first heartbreak? 

34.  Would you rather be unhappy but rich and famous or be a nobody but be happy?

35. Would you rather have a short- or long-term relationship with a person? 

36. Would you rather cheat on your current partner with your ex or a stranger? 

flirty would you rather questions sex with an ex or stranger

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37. Would you rather choose to stay with your partner if it meant you lost out on the chance to be extremely rich? 

38. Would you rather make sweet love for hours but only do it once a week or have short 3 minute sessions every day? 

39. Would you rather sit under a tree with your partner or be under the sun on the beach with them? 

40. Would you rather be someone that is feared by people or loved by people? 

41. Would you rather wrestle me in a pool of jello or a pool of chocolate?

Flirty Would You Rather Questions To Ask A Guy

42. Would you rather passionately kiss a girl or be the one who gets passionately kissed by a girl 

43. Would you rather date one girl at a time or date five at once? 

44. Would you rather be in a long-term relationship or have several one-night stands? 

45. Would you rather have a super famous girlfriend or a super-intelligent girlfriend? 

46. Would you rather check out a girl’s body from the front or the back? 

47. Would you rather have an evening of Netflix and chill or an evening of partying with your girl? 

48. Would you rather find true love or win the lottery tomorrow? 

flirty would you rather questions find true love or win the lottery

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49. Would you rather kiss a girl on her lips or her neck while being intimate? 

50. Would you rather get into a relationship with someone older or younger than you? 

51. Would you rather see a girl in a bikini or tight sports leggings? 

52. Would you rather your girlfriend wore lots of makeup or minimal makeup when going out? 

53. Would you rather do it on a plane or train? 

54. Would you rather go to second base on the first date or wait? 

55. Would you rather get back into a relationship with your ex or date one of your friend’s exes? 

56. Would you rather be my best friend or be in a relationship with me? 

57. Would you rather a girl wear sexy lingerie or be completely naked? 

58. Would you rather cuddle or go to sleep after having sex? 

59. Would you rather sleep completely naked or with PJs? 

60. Would you rather have kids or get married first? 

flirty would you rather questions have kids or get married first

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61. Would you rather cook for a girl you like or order in food? 

62. Would you rather be purely physical or commit with a girl you like? 

63. Would you rather date a girl who’s shorter or taller than you? 

64. Would you rather go camping with your girlfriend or stay in an expensive hotel? 

65. Would you rather go on long road trips or long walks? 

66. Would you rather be known as a bad boy or a good boy? 

67. Would you rather date a good girl or a girl whose actions were questionable? 

68. Would you rather stay in and watch a film or go out on an adventure? 

69. Would you rather we chatted more on social media or over the phone? 

70. Would you rather be amazing in bed or fantastic at life-changing science? 

71. Would you rather end the relationship with someone or have them finish it with you? 

72. Would you rather give up your favorite hobby for the year or give up sex for a year? 

flirty would you rather question on whether you'd rather give up your favorite hobby for the year or give up sex for a year

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Flirty Would You Rather Questions To Ask A Girl

73. Would you rather be rich or rich and famous?  

74. Would you rather ask for help with something or try and do it yourself? 

75. Would you rather spend a day with your partner inside or outside? 

76. Would you rather go out for fine dining or grab a burger and a soda from a fast-food joint? 

77. Would you rather go for a long walk on the beach or take a dip in the sea?  

78. Would you rather dance with me under the stars or in a nightclub? 

79. Would you rather watch a film with me or watch the sunset? 

80. Would you rather get professional photos taken of us both or us take silly selfies ourselves? 

81. Would you rather sing a song to me or play one on guitar to me? 

82. Would you rather I gave you a peck on the cheek or a french kiss? 

83. Would you rather I hold your hand, or I put my arm around your waist? 

84. Would you rather give flowers to someone or receive them? 

flirty would you rather questions give flowers or receive them

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85. Would you rather be kinky or romantic in the relationship? 

86. Would you rather lose your sense of feeling during love or your sense of taste? 

87. Would you rather roleplay as a teacher or a police officer? 

88. Would you rather watch an adult film together or have us make our own adult film? 

89. Would you rather take a body shot of me or me to take a body shot of you? 

90. Would you rather grant everyone’s dirty wishes or have all your naughty wishes granted? 

91. Would you rather spend a night in a haunted house or spend the night with your ex-partner? 

92. Would you rather be bald everywhere on your body or have lots of hair everywhere?

93. Would you rather be twice as rich as you are now or twice as beautiful?  

94. Would you rather be celibate for a whole year or not be able to speak for a month? 

95. Would you rather be naked everywhere you go or have everyone around you be able to listen to your thoughts? 

96. Would you rather spend the day wearing my clothes or me wearing your clothes? 

97. Would you rather date someone that needs constant attention or date someone who doesn’t want any attention at all? 

98. Would you rather date someone who’s extremely sensitive or date someone with no emotions at all? 

99. Would you rather be single and on your own or be in an open relationship with someone? 

100. Would you rather let me go to a strip club for one night or perform a striptease for me yourself?  

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