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190 Fun and Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl You Like (Over Text or In Person)

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These flirty questions to ask a girl over text or in person are great if you’re looking to get closer to someone you like and to see if they reciprocate or not. It can be hard to know whether a girl likes you, and that’s where these cheeky questions to ask a girl come in.

They’re good questions to ask a girl if you feel there’s a connection between the two of you. They’re also great questions for communicating your intentions. The aim of these questions should be to have a fun, light conversation and then work towards arranging a real-life meetup.

Whether you’re on your first date or not, these flirty questions will help to steer the conversation towards a suggestion to meet up and do something fun.

Best Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

1. What was the first thing that attracted you to me? 

flirty questions to ask a girl what attracted you to me

2. What’s the most attractive quality you look for in a guy? 

3. What’s one of your biggest dreams in life? 

4. If I said yes to anything all day, what fun things would you have me doing?

5. What do you imagine my style or vibe is like? 

6. What physical feature of mine do you find most attractive?

7. What’s the most unusual place you’ve ever been on a date?

8. Are looks or personality more important to you? 

9. Are you ticklish?

10. What famous person do you think I look like?


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11. What were your first impressions of me? 

12. What’s your favorite thing about my personality?

13. How am I different from the other people you’ve dated in the past? 

14. If we went on another date, where would we go and what would we do? 

15. If we were to go on vacation together, where would you like to go and why?

16. What’s the most romantic gesture you’ve ever experienced?

17. What physical feature of mine do you find most attractive?

18. Would you rather go for a coffee or get some drinks? 

19. Are you single at the moment?

20. What’s your favorite color?

21. What’s your funniest dating story? 

22. What’s the most unusual place you’ve ever been on a date?

23. Are you someone who likes to try new things? 

flirty questions to ask a girl are you someone that likes to try new things

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24. How would you react if I held your hand right now? 

25. What turns you off the most in a guy? 

26. Do you like showing public displays of affection? 

27. Do you enjoy cuddling on the couch while watching a film?

28. Do you like when guys plan a romantic date night? 

29. What’s one personal goal or desire you haven’t shared with many people?

30. Tell me about your guilty pleasures?

31. What to you makes a guy handsome? 

32. How would you describe me to your friends?

33. Do you have a crush on anyone now? 

34. What are your signs when you’re falling for a guy? 

35. If we were to enter Married at First Sight, do you think we would make it through the experiment and remain a married couple? 

Fun Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

36. Who’s your celebrity crush? 

37. What’s the most memorable thing someone special has done for you in the past? 

38. What’s your favorite color to wear? 

39. Do you like it when guys buy you gifts? 

40. In your opinion, what are the three most essential things in any relationship?

41. When you saw a picture of me, what did you initially think? 

42. Do you sleep with clothes on? 

43. What’s your ideal man? 

44. How do you know when you’re in love with someone? 

45. What’s the worst meal you could eat on a first date? 

46. What does an ideal relationship look like in your eyes? 

flirty questions to ask a girl ideal relationship

47. What qualities do you look for when dating a guy? 

48. Do you like having company when you relax or unwind? 

49. Do you have any insecurities when it comes to meeting someone new? 

50. Where can you see this relationship going? 

51. What do you think your parents would feel about me? 

52. Do your friends know you’ve met someone new? What do you think they would make of me? 

53. Do you like cuddling? 

54. How quickly do you like to move at the start of a relationship? 

55. Do you like taking baths or showers? 

56. So, when are you going to let me take you on a date?

57. How does it feel to fall in love with someone? 

58. Should women make the first move when it comes to dating? 

59. How likely are you to make the first move with me? 

60. What was your first serious relationship like?

61. What did your first serious relationship teach you about yourself?

62. Do you remember a kiss that really stood out to you?

63. What do you wish every guy had? 

64. Do you think you can fall in love with someone at first sight? 

65. How is a girl as unique as you not taken?  

66. What are your favorite spots in town to hang out? 

67. Do you enjoy relaxing things like massages or spa days?

68. Do you think there is an attraction between us?  

69. Do you like me? 

flirty questions to ask a girl do you like me

70. What are your favorite bars in town right now? 

71. You look beautiful in your profile pic. Where was it taken? 

72. What’s your favorite thing about me? 

73. What do you think is your best physical feature? 

74. Do you always get a lot of attention from guys?  

75. Do you like when someone takes the lead in a relationship, or do you prefer equality?  

76. Are you more into guys, or are you an introvert or an extrovert? 

77. Do you have any piercings? 

78. What did you think about my dating profile? 

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79. What’s your love language? 

80. What are your plans after this date? 

81. You look good in that photo. Where was it taken?

82. What do you think my best physical feature is? 

83. Do you have any hidden tattoos that aren’t visible to me now? 

84. What are your plans this weekend? Anything fun?

85. What future do you see with me? 

86. Do you enjoy flirting?  

87. How would you describe your personality, playful or reserved?

88. Would people who know you call you cheeky? 

89. Do you take life too seriously? 

90. Do you want to get married in the future?

91. How important is emotional closeness to you in a relationship? 

92. Do you think we will both know the time when we take this relationship to the next level? 

flirty questions to ask a girl taking the relationship to the next level

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93. What would be your reaction if I asked you to marry me? 

94. Do any of your friends find me attractive? 

95. Who has had the biggest emotional impact on your love life?

96. How would you feel about spending more time together after a great date?

97. Would you consider me having a key to your place? 

98. What do you think married life would be like for both of us? 

99. What do you think our kids would look like? 

100. What are your most significant relationship deal breakers?

101. Do you think it’s important to be loyal? 

102. Are you open to trying new experiences in a relationship? 

103. How do you feel when we spend time together? 

104. How did you feel the first time we shared a meaningful moment together? 

105. What type of house can you see us living in together? 

106. Would you be bothered if I texted you late at night just to talk? 

107. Do you know what a fantastic person you are? 

108. Do you think you’re lucky to be with me? 

109. Has anyone told you before how beautiful you are? 

110. Do you like it when we hug?

111. Which celebrity do you find most attractive?

112. Can you tell me more about what you value in relationships? 

113. Are you ok with someone who asks a lot of questions? 

114. Do you think we bring out the best in each other? 

115. How often do you go out partying in the week? 

flirty questions to ask a girl how often do you party

116. You smell so good. What’s that perfume? 

117. Do you like to Netflix and chill? 

118. What movie would you like us to watch together? 

119. Has anyone told you what a fantastic smile you have? 

120. What’s your favorite outfit of mine? 

121. What’s your favorite way to relax or unwind?  

122. How would you rate me out of 10? 

123. Do you have any rules you simply won’t break when it comes to dating? 

124. How adventurous are you as a person? 

125. What trait annoys you most? 

126. If you could ask me any question right now, what would it be? 

127. Did you have a backup plan if this date didn’t go well? 

128. What’s something I should know about you before I take this relationship any further? 

129. Are you ready and want to fall in love with someone? 

130. What do you think of people who have casual relationships? 

131. Do you think we are romantic together? 

132. How does our relationship compare to your friends? 

133. Would you ever send me a funny or cute picture of yourself? 

134. Was there anything about me that put you off when we first met? 

135. Do you feel you have all the fulfilment you want in life right now? 

136. Do you think I’m good at this flirting game? 

137.  What are your best memories of love?

138. What kind of music do you like to listen to when you’re feeling relaxed or emotional?

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139. Have you ever had a deep late‑night conversation over text? 

140. What’s the most sensual thing you’ve experienced in your life? 

Cheeky Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

141. Where would you like to go on the first date? 

142. How would the people close to you describe you in three words? 

143. When you’re alone, do you ever think about me? 

144. Do you think each person is destined to be with another in this world? 

145. What’s the best thing about being single? 

146. What was your longest relationship? Why did that end? 

147. Have you ever dated more than one person at a time? 

148. What would you say if I asked you on a date? 

149. What do you prefer, giving or receiving? 

150. Have you ever dreamt about me? 

151. Has your impression of me changed since we first met? 

152. When your friends mentioned me to you, how did they describe me? 

153. Do you ever get shy around a guy? 

154. What do you think makes someone ready to settle down?

155. When are you going to let me take you out again?

156. Do you see yourself as a leader? 

157. Would you be loyal to me if we got into a serious relationship? 

158. Have you broken anyone’s heart in the past? 

159. Would you describe yourself as a jealous person? 

160. Do you think you have a high opinion of yourself? 

161. Do you think I’m easy on the eyes? 

flirty question to ask a girl on whether you're easy on the eyes

162. Have you ever imagined what it would be like to spend a day together?

163. What are the top five things on your bucket list? 

164. What’s one adventure you would like to go on with me one day? 

165. Are you someone who’s trusted to keep secrets? 

166. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done in your life so far? 

167. Are you someone who finds it easy to resist something you want? 

168. Do you think we would be a happy couple in the long term, or would we annoy each other every day? 

169. What’s the craziest thing you’ve done for love?

170. What’s your Instagram name? 

171. What’s your favorite recipe to cook for the person you’re dating?

172. Would you be mad at me if I changed my relationship status on Facebook to ‘it’s complicated? 

173. Are you someone who likes to take lots of pictures together? 

174. What in life has scared you most, but you did it anyway? 

175. Do you enjoy people‑watching?  

176. Do you ever compare your relationship to any of your friends or family? 

177. What are you doing after work tomorrow? 

178. Would you be offended if I gave you my number? 

179. What qualities do you find most attractive in a partner?

180. Have you dated someone in a similar stage of life to me before?

181. Am I the usual type of person you like to date? 

182. Do you ever think about me? 

183. Have you ever had a dream about me? 

184. What could we do for 24 hours without getting bored? 

185. Are you open to trying new things in a relationship? 

186. What clothing do you usually wear to sleep in? 

187. What’s your favorite memory of a time we spent together? 

188. Do you think we could ever be more than just friends? 

189. Where in the house do you feel most comfortable and relaxed? 

190. When are you going to let me take you out again?

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Tom Stevenson

Co-Founder of Questions About Everything

Tom is a travel writer and Co-Founder of Questions About Everything. He grew up in the UK and enjoys spending his time traveling to new places, supporting Liverpool FC, and blogging about his adventures. He spent two years teaching English in Barcelona and frequently utilized question games and conversation starters as part of his lesson plans. As an EFL teacher, he took full responsibility for planning and delivering lessons, frequently employing creative and diverse questions to engage the children in conversation. Learn more about Tom on our About page.

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