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190 Fun and Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl You Like (Over Text or In Person)

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These flirty questions to ask a girl over text or in person are great if you’re looking to get closer to someone you like and to see if they reciprocate or not.

It can be hard to know whether a girl likes you, and that’s where these cheeky questions to ask a girl come in. If you feel your date is going well, you can ask these questions to gauge whether she’s interested in you or not.

They’re good questions to ask a girl if you feel there’s a connection between the two of you. They’re also great questions to communicate what your intentions are. The aim of these questions should be to have a fun and light conversation and then work towards arranging a meetup in real life.

Whether you’re on your first date or not, these flirty questions will help to steer the conversation towards a suggestion to meet up and do something fun.

Best Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

1. What was the first thing that attracted you to me? 

flirty questions to ask a girl what attracted you to me

2. What’s your biggest turn on in a guy? 

3. What’s your wildest fantasy? 

4. If I had to say yes, all day, what would you get me doing?

5. Do you think guys should be the first to make a move? 

6. What type of flirting is your favorite?

7. What do you think I look like naked?

8. Are looks or personality more important to you? 

9. Are you ticklish? Whereabouts?

10. What famous person do you think I look like?

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11. What were your first impressions of me? 

12. What’s your favorite thing about my personality?

13. How am I different to the other people you’ve dated in the past? 

14. If we went on another date, where would we go and what would we do? 

15. If we were to go on vacation together, where would you like to go and why?

16. What’s the most romantic gesture you’ve ever experienced?

17. What about my body turns you on the most?

18. Would you rather go for a coffee or get some drinks? 

19. Are you single at the moment?

20. What’s the weirdest fetish you have?

21. What’s your funniest dating story? 

22. Where’s the weirdest place you’ve done it?

23. Are you someone that likes to try new things? 

flirty questions to ask a girl are you someone that likes to try new things

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24. How would you react if I kissed you right now? 

25. What turns you off the most in a guy? 

26. Do you like showing public displays of affection? 

27. Do you enjoy cuddling on the couch while watching a film?

28. Do you like when guys plan a romantic date night? 

29. Tell me one secret desire you have?

30. Tell me about your guilty pleasures?

31. What to you makes a guy handsome? 

32. How would you describe me to your friends?

33. Do you have a crush on anyone now? 

34. What are your signs when you’re falling for a guy? 

35. If we were to enter married at first sight, do you think we would make it through the experiment and remain a married couple? 

Fun Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

36. Who’s your celebrity crush? 

37. What’s the most memorable thing someone special has done for you in the past? 

38. What’s your favorite color of lingerie? 

39. Do you like it when guys buy you gifts? 

40. In your opinion, what are the three most essential things in any relationship?

41. When you saw a picture of me, what did you initially think? 

42. Do you sleep with clothes on? 

43. What’s your ideal man? 

44. How do you know when you’re in love with someone? 

45. What’s the worst meal you could eat on a first date? 

46. What does an ideal relationship look like in your eyes? 

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47. What qualities do you look for when dating a guy? 

48. Is your bed big enough for two people? 

49. Do you have any insecurities when it comes to meeting someone new? 

50. Where can you see this relationship going? 

51. What do you think your parents would feel about me? 

52. Do your friends know you’ve met someone new? What do you think they would make of me? 

53. Do you like cuddling? 

54. How quickly do you like to move at the start of a relationship? 

55. Do you like taking baths or showers? 

56. So, when are you going to let me take you on a date?

57. How does it feel to fall in love with someone? 

58. Should women make the first move when it comes to intimacy? 

59. How likely are you to make the first move with me? 

60. What age did you first date someone? How was the relationship? 

61. What age were you first intimate with a guy?  

62. When did you first share a kiss with someone? 

63. What do you wish every guy had? 

64. Do you think you can fall in love with someone at first sight? 

65. How is a girl as unique as you not taken?  

66. What are your favorite spots in town to hang out? 

67. Do you enjoy being massaged? How would you like a massage from me? 

68. Do you think there is an attraction between us?  

69. Do you like me? 

flirty questions to ask a girl do you like me

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70. What are your favorite bars in town right now? 

71. You look beautiful in your profile pic, where was it taken? 

72. What’s your favorite thing about me? 

73. What do you think is your best physical feature? 

74. Do you always get a lot of attention from guys?  

75. Do you like guys to take the lead in the bedroom, or would you prefer to be the dominant one?  

76. Are you more into guys, or are introverts or extroverts? 

77. Do you have any piercings? 

78. What did you think about my dating profile? 

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79. What’s your love language? 

80. What are your plans after this date? 

81. You look good in that photo, where was it taken?

82. What do you think my best physical feature is? 

83. Do you have any hidden tattoos that aren’t visible to me now? 

84. What are your plans this weekend, anything fun?

85. What future do you see with me? 

86. Do you enjoy flirting?  

87. How would you describe yourself, naughty or nice?

88. Would people who know you call you cheeky? 

89. Do you take life too seriously? 

90. Do you want to get married in the future?

91. How important is being intimate to you? 

92. Do you think we will both know the time when we take this relationship to the next level? 

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93. What would be your reaction, if I asked you to marry me? 

94. Do any of your friends find me attractive? 

95. Who was your first love?

96. How would you feel if I was to stay with you tonight after our date? 

97. Would you consider me having a key to your place? 

98. What do you think married life would be like for both of us? 

99. What do you think our kids would look like? 

100. What are your most significant relationship deal breakers?

101. Do you think it’s important to be loyal? 

102. Are you someone who would consider trying new things when it comes to intimacy? 

103. What feelings do you get when I touch you? 

104. How did you feel the first time I touched you intimately? 

105. What type of house can you see us living in together? 

106. Would you be offended if I text you in the middle of the night wanting a booty call? 

107. Do you know what a fantastic person you are? 

108. Do you think you’re lucky to be with me? 

109. Has anyone told you before how beautiful you are? 

110. Do you like it when we hug?

111. Who was your childhood celebrity crush? 

112. Can you tell me anything more about your sex life? 

113. Are you ok with someone that asks a lot of questions? 

114. Do you think we bring the best out of each other? 

115. How often do you go out partying in the week? 

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116. You smell so good. What’s that perfume? 

117. Do you like to Netflix and chill? 

118. What movie would you like us to watch together? 

119. Has anyone told you what a fantastic smile you have? 

120. What’s your favorite outfit of mine? 

121. What’s your favorite position?  

122. How would you rate me out of 10? 

123. Do you have any rules you simply won’t break when it comes to dating? 

124. How adventurous are you as a person? 

125. What trait annoys you most? 

126. If you could ask me any question right now, what would it be? 

127. Did you have a backup plan if this date didn’t go well? 

128. What’s something I should know about you before I take this relationship any further? 

129. Are you ready and want to fall in love with someone? 

130. What do you think of people who have casual relationships? 

131. Do you think we are romantic together? 

132. How does our relationship compare to your friends? 

133. Would you consider sending me any naughty pictures? 

134. Was there anything that put you off me when we first met? 

135. Do you feel you have all the fulfilment you want in life right now? 

136. Do you think I’m good at this flirting game? 

137.  What are your best memories of love?

138. What song or artist do you like to play when you’re being intimate? 

flirty questions to ask a girl what song do you like being intimate to

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139. Have you ever sexted someone? 

140. What’s the most sensual thing you’ve experienced in your life? 

Cheeky Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

141. Where would you like to go on the first date? 

142. How would the people close to you describe you in three words? 

143. When you’re alone do you ever think about me? 

144. Do you think each person is destined to be with another in this world? 

145. What’s the best thing about being single? 

146. What was your longest relationship? Why did that end? 

147. Have you ever dated more than one person at a time? 

148. What would you say If I asked you on a date? 

149. What do you prefer, giving or receiving? 

150. Have you ever dreamt about me? 

151. Has your impression of me changed since we first met? 

152. When your friends mentioned me to you, how did they describe me? 

153. Do you ever get shy around a guy? 

154. At what age do you think people should settle down? 

155. When are you going to let me take you out again?

156. Do you see yourself as someone who is a leader? 

157. Would you be loyal to me if we got into a serious relationship? 

158. Have you broken anyone’s heart in the past? 

159. Would you describe yourself as a jealous person? 

160. Do you think you have a high opinion of yourself? 

161. Do you think I’m easy on the eyes? 

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162. Have you ever imagined me naked? Describe what you think my body looks like? 

163. What’re the top five things on your bucket list? 

164. What’s one adventure you would like to go on with me one day? 

165. Are you someone that’s trusted to keep secrets? 

166. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done in your life so far? 

167. Are you someone that finds it easy to resist something you want? 

168. Do you think we would be a happy couple in the long term, or would we annoy each other every day? 

169. What’s the craziest thing you’ve done for love?

170. What’s your Instagram name? 

171. What’s your favorite recipe to cook for the person you’re dating?

172. Would you be mad at me if I changed my relationship status on Facebook to ‘it’s complicated? 

173. Are you someone that likes to take lots of pictures together? 

174. What in life has scared you most, but you did it anyway? 

175. Do you enjoy watching other people?  

176. Do you ever compare your relationship to any of your friends or family? 

177. What are you doing after work tomorrow? 

178. Would you be offended if I gave you my number? 

179. What attracts you most to younger men? 

180. Have you dated someone my age before? 

181. Am I the usual type of person you like to date? 

182. Do you ever find yourself thinking about me? 

183. Have you had any naughty dreams about me? 

184. What could we do for 24hrs without getting bored? 

185. Are you someone who would be willing to try new sexual experiences? 

186. What clothing do you usually wear to sleep in? 

187. What’s your favorite memory of a time we spent together? 

188. Do you think we could ever be more than just friends? 

189. Where in the house do you like to make love the most? 

190. When are you going to let me take you out again?

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Tom Stevenson

Co-Founder of Questions About Everything

Tom is a travel writer and Co-Founder of Questions About Everything. He grew up in the UK and enjoys spending his time traveling to new places, supporting Liverpool FC, and blogging about his adventures. He spent two years teaching English in Barcelona and frequently utilized question games and conversation starters as part of his lesson plans. As an EFL teacher, he took full responsibility for planning and delivering lessons, frequently employing creative and diverse questions to engage the children in conversation. Learn more about Tom on our About page.